The Possessions Go, The Memories Stay
New York Times (03/21/01) Vol. 105, No. 11 p.2; Brown, Patricia Leigh
Madeleine Philips' life has gone through many phases, but no
phase could have prepared her for her transition from a house she lived
in for 14 years to an 11x18 room at the Claremont House, a residence
closer to her children in Oakland, Calif. This is a major change many
retirees go through. Philips' decision to move closer to her children
was gradual, and after her 80th birthday, she sent letters to her
children, listing her possessions. She asked them to mark their
preferences on a scale of 1 to 10. Philips separated her belongings
into three categories: things she had to have, things she never wanted
to see again, and things she was not sure about. She then stored away
the "maybes" in her child's garage. Now, Philips is ready to begin a
new chapter in her life in a new place.